Home › News › Local News
Recipient of kidney finally finds, thanks family of the young donor
Photos by Karen Quincy Loberg / Star staff Simi Valley resident Kerry Rohrer looks at a photograph of her son, Johnny Lopez, who was killed at age 17 in a dirt bike accident in Moorpark. She is about to meet the man who received one of her son's kidney, Daniel Ronco, 51, left.
Simi Valley resident Kerry Rohrer meets Daniel Ronco of Moreno Valley eight years after Ronco received Rohrer's late son's kidneys after his death in an accident. The meeting was held at OneLegacy in Sherman Oaks on Wednesday night.
Daniel Ronco's spirit makes him an obvious choice to ride this year on Donate Life's Rose Parade float, but the kidney-transplant recipient from Moreno Valley still had to interview with a committee from the nonprofit group, which raises awareness about organ donation.
"This year's float really focuses on the celebration of life and its gifts, and Daniel walked in there (to the interview) ready to celebrate," said Stephanie Schmitz, volunteer and community events coordinator for OneLegacy, an organ and tissue recovery agency.
But there was one thing Ronco, 51, didn't have that other riders usually carry on the float — a photo of his donor. "I always wanted to know the donor," Ronco said. "I knew there was a family out there."
Instead of a picture, Ronco planned to carry a letter he composed for the donor's family, who, he later learned, were from Ventura County. He had sent the letter to them through the transplant center, which is procedure, but it didn't get through to the family. A second attempt was also unsuccessful. Then Schmitz got involved.
"Once he became a float rider, we thought we've got to find out somehow," Schmitz said.
A call to the transplant coordinator at the hospital where Ronco had surgery in July 1999 yielded the donor's name. Further investigation confirmed the family was still in the area. Ronco's letter was sent, and a meeting was set up for Wednesday between Ronco and the family of the donor, who was from Moorpark.
When he learned last week of the meeting, Ronco was nervously happy. "I was crying because of joy," Ronco said of the chance to meet the family of John "Johnny" Marcus Lopez, a 17-year-old Moorpark resident who died July 26, 1999, from injuries sustained in a motor-bike accident.
In some ways, as family members discovered during their meeting Wednesday at OneLegacy's Sherman Oaks office, Ronco has a lot in common with the teen who so greatly affected his life.
Caring, curious and much loved, Lopez had a contagious smile, family members told Ronco.
"He was amazing. He was the perfect son. People think I'm saying that just because he's not here anymore," said his mother, Simi Valley resident Kerry Rohrer. "But he was."
Rohrer described the time when her son bolted from her side in a parking lot to help a woman struggling to open a door. Perplexed by his action, Rohrer hadn't even noticed the woman.
"He always wanted to make sure everyone else felt good," said Kathy Lambert, Lopez's aunt.
Ronco, who sometimes still visits the dialysis centers that used to consume so much of his life, understands that impulse. He wants people to know the difference between being on a dialysis machine and having a successful kidney transplant. They are "two different worlds," he said.
Ronco volunteers for a food ministry as well as for the National Kidney Foundation, serves as an ambassador for OneLegacy, and also helps build Donate Life's yearly Rose Parade float.
Ronco also participates in the U.S. Transplant Games. In 2006, he took home a gold medal in volleyball from the Louisville games.
Lopez, too, was an active young man who loved sports. "He wanted to do everything," Rohrer said.
According to his father, Moorpark resident Steve Lopez, the Moorpark Soccer Club is setting up a tournament to commemorate his son.
On the day of the accident, he was noticing his son's recent growth spurt, he recalled. "When he first got his bike, his feet didn't touch the ground," Steve Lopez said. "That day, I still remember him standing on his bike, and I couldn't believe both feet were touching."
For Steve Lopez, Wednesday's meeting provided a chance to do something he had desired for years.
"About six months after the accident, they sent me a letter with some of the recipients," he said of those who received organs from his son. "I wanted to meet them all, but as time passed, I was unable to."
He was happy to get Ronco's letter and finally meet him. "He's a really nice man," Steve Lopez said.
Ronco still thinks about the transplant daily — sometimes every five minutes, he said, depending on where he is. For him, the chance to meet his donor family was like winning a grand prize.
A bit nervous during the meeting, Ronco said he hoped the family didn't mind his occasional stutter.
When family members assured him they didn't, Rohrer added that Johnny used to sometimes stutter as well.





Posted by AnnaWhaat on November 16, 2007 at 4:57 a.m. (Suggest removal)
Johnny will always live on. I am sure he at peace now and knowing he gave others the chance to live he is so greatful. God Bless you!!!!
Posted by steph16 on November 16, 2007 at 9:45 a.m. (Suggest removal)
My husband is a kidney-transplant recipient also doing very well with it and we would like to know who gave him this second chance but UCLA will not disclose the info. Im glad that Mr. Ronco got to meet the family who gave him a second chance. God Bless Johnny Lopez and his family.
Posted by lthomas on November 16, 2007 at 9:58 a.m. (Suggest removal)
How wonderful-the most precious gift we can ever give is the gift of life. My beautiful son Mitchell died at 29, and through OneLegacy he was able to help the lives of 4 donor recipents. One received his heart,2 people his kidneys and one person his liver. I have been notified (and also have written the recipents) that the 4 people that Mitchell helped save the lives of are doing well and thriving from my sons generous gift of life. My son had always said that "If anything happens to me, I'd like to donate my organs", little did I know that I would have to honor that wish. I miss my son every single day, but I have found comfort in knowing that he has helped save the lives of four people. My family will also be taking part in the "Life Takes FLight" float for the 2008 Rose Parade.
Posted by AnnaWhaat on November 17, 2007 at 4:26 a.m. (Suggest removal)
lthomas ,God Bless you! Your Son was a very very special man....I am sorry for your loss. I know it has to be hard. But I am so Glad that you followed his wishes so that others may live. Enjoy the float and remember how special he was everyday!
(Requires free registration.)
Article discussions on this site are to support community debates of issues related to our stories and editorials.
Discussions should not stray from the subject of the story or editorial.
We do not allow the following:
We reserve the right to delete threads and/or ban users for these or other reasons we deem necessary.
Opinions are the sole responsibility of the person posting them. You agree not to post comments that are off topic, defamatory, obscene, abusive, threatening or an invasion of privacy. Violators may be banned. Click here for our full user agreement.