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Cason Point: For a dying dog, every day is his day


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Colleen Cason holds her dog, Dylan, who is suffering from degenerative myelopathy. He has already lost use of his right rear leg and his hind quarters have caved in on themselves.

David K. Yamamoto / Special to The Star Colleen Cason holds her dog, Dylan, who is suffering from degenerative myelopathy. He has already lost use of his right rear leg and his hind quarters have caved in on themselves.

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There are dog smarts, and then there are people smarts.

They have 220 million olfactory receptors. We have 5 million.

They hear 35,000 vibrations per second. We pick up about half of that.

Essentially, they can smell the garbage truck before they hear it. And they hear it before it rumbles us out of our sleep.

They have the better short-range vision. Dogs do. We see farther.

I've seen my dog's future in an MRI. And people smarts indicate this is Dylan's last Christmas with us.

In August our otherwise healthy 13-year-old Welsh corgi was diagnosed with a neurological disease. Degenerative myelopathy is a poorly understood and probably genetic disorder that strikes older dogs, particularly German shepherds, boxers and corgis.

In the four months since the diagnosis, Dylan has lost use of his right rear leg. His left rear leg is fading. His hind quarters have caved in on themselves. Mostly he uses shoulder strength to get around.

As the disease progresses, it takes out everything — his mobility, his breath and his doggy dignity.

But it was not his dignity that delighted us on that January day in 1995 when we picked him from a litter bred in the Antelope Valley.

Ten-week-old Dylan was flinging his stocky self at a frenetic Bumble Ball, a motorized orb designed to bounce noisily off of any flat surface.

Dylan came with a pedigree. But we think he's a mutt, descended from foxes, German shepherds and satellite dishes. There is no other explanation for those ears.

After he flunked out of dog obedience and failed the aptitude test for sheep-herding school, I asked our vet if dogs have ADD. Dylan's just happy-go-lucky, he replied.

Then four years later, when Dylan developed irritable bowel, the vet asked me if he had stress in his life. Not unless he is day-trading while I'm at work, I replied.

Dylan got ulcers and gave them. Regulars at the Thousand Oaks dog park may remember when he reigned like Napoleon over the big-dog side.

Although he met the weight limit for admission to the small-dog area, he played too rough with those butterfly-boned toy breeds. So one day I opened the fence between the two sides, and Dylan never looked back.

I thought it would be his Waterloo when he confronted the biggest dog there. He snarled and trash talked until the big white dog backed off.

After that, he was never challenged.

This was the same Dylan who wimped out and refused to sit on Santa's lap at the pet store.

He has climbed a mountain in the Sierras, hiked the floor of Sycamore Canyon and driven our pickup. At least, he thought he was in charge when my husband put him on his lap and placed his paws on the steering wheel.

To feel in control, I search the Internet for information on Dylan's disease. There I came across a site that demonstrates how to turn totally paralyzed dogs to prevent pressure sores. It broke my heart to imagine Dylan that way.

Dr. Joan Coates, a veterinary researcher at the University of Missouri and an expert on degenerative myelopathy, gives Dylan three to five more months, based on my description over the phone.

How will I know the right time to end Dylan's life? I asked her.

Many owners put them down when they are incontinent and too disabled to get out of their own messes, she explained.

Dylan, the alpha dog, surely would be humiliated to be discovered in that state by his pack.

Meanwhile, he lives life on his terms. He insists on navigating a steep slope that drops to our back fence. He fishtails down and then painstakingly pulls himself up. But what else can he do? There are rabbits there that must be barked at.

He keeps up with current events. With my mom supporting his hips with a long, green scarf, he checks out our mailbox, a kind of canine message board the neighborhood dogs blog all over.

As crippled as he is, he's not supposed to be able to run. But somehow he defies the laws of physics and anatomy as he gallops down the hallway toward the sound of popcorn in the microwave.

Our little Mark Spitz dog paddles in our spa as my husband's arms keep him buoyant.

And I don't know what this says about prospects for world peace, but hating our youngest dog Tyler has given Dylan another reason to live.

A survey released last week showed pet ownership is soaring in this country as is the amount we spend on them. We can dress them in sweaters, feed them venison and call them our fur children, but the truth is dogs and people are different. They have smarter noses. They have keener ears. And in some cases better instincts.

While I worry too often these days about what I will have to do, Dylan focuses on the things he can do.

Applying dog smarts to my people brain, I realize what every loved dog knows. And that is each day and every moment in that day is a gift to savor. And you never know when the next hotdog will fall off the table.

When his eyes tell me the time is right, my gift to him will be to let him go with dignity, grateful for his courage, his trust and, most of all, for his unapologetic Dylan-osity.

— E-mail this Star columnist at ccason@venturacountystar.com.

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Posted by mswallred on December 16, 2007 at 7:19 a.m. (Suggest removal)

Aww Colleen, your column brought tears to my eyes. I lost one of my dogs about this time last year---She was with me for half my life (17 years) and I did everything to keep her going when she became ill because I couldn't imagine her not there. Within weeks, her symptoms grew worse--The last straw was when she was standing outside in the dark howling in pain and she couldn't sit or lay down anymore. I knew it was time. I got her euthenized--Hardest decision in my life. I was with her at the vet's office, holding her as she took her last breath. She looked so peaceful and no longer in pain. I knew I made the right decision. Dogs bring such happiness but when they get ill, it just breaks your heart. It sounds like you're a great dog owner so your dog has had a truly blessed and happy life.

Posted by I_LOVE_VENTURA on December 16, 2007 at 7:38 a.m. (Suggest removal)

Dylan is very lucky to be part of a family like yours.

Posted by terryt6666 on December 16, 2007 at 9:02 a.m. (Suggest removal)

I lost my Barney last year to cancer. In fact the Star did a story on him several months ago. I know what you are going through and my heart goes out to you. They become like children and of course you treat them like family. At a certain point the greatest gift that you can give them is release from any more pain. I have done this with each of my animal family members and no it doesn't get any easier each time. Again my heart goes out to you at this time and be thankful for the last few weeks you will be having together..

Posted by smithjc on December 16, 2007 at 7:39 p.m. (Suggest removal)

throughout the years i have been owned by several dogs, and gone through similar circumstances with losing them. even though it's very difficult to lose a member of the family (and they are that), i could never imagine being without a dog in my life. a house is only a house until there is a dog in it. only then does it truly become a home.

you truly have my sympathy and understanding in this.

Posted by SummerSun on December 16, 2007 at 8:03 p.m. (Suggest removal)

I'm so sorry, I've lost pets, most to old age. My last dog lived to be a week from 22, I was blessed to have him for so long. I'm so sorry for your baby and pray for you and spend each day cherishing your best friend.

Posted by joeMomma on December 20, 2007 at 10:39 a.m. (Suggest removal)

Good luck and God bless. Enjoy the time you have left.

Posted by Luvador2 on July 31, 2008 at 7:39 a.m. (Suggest removal)

This article has help to make my decision...as bad as I feel I know that it's time for "Miss Coco" she is a 14yr. chocolate lab...the vet said a week ago "she still has a will to live" but every day I see her getting weaker, she won't eat anything now...it will be hard!!!! She's had the best of care and love...she will be missed...I hope I can be as stong as this old girl when it's my time!!!!



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